Frequently asked questions.

SwingDesire is a UK online lifestyle community for swingers and open-minded adults. It brings verified member profiles, private connections, lifestyle events, clubs and community features together in one secure platform.

SwingDesire welcomes couples and single adults aged 18 or over who are open-minded, respectful and willing to follow our Community Guidelines. Access to the member community is subject to verification.

Yes. SwingDesire is strictly for adults aged 18 or over. Members must complete the required age and identity checks before accessing the community.

No. SwingDesire is open to couples, single women and single men who meet our membership and verification requirements.

Yes. You do not need previous lifestyle experience to join. We ask every member to be honest, respectful of boundaries and considerate towards others.

Verification helps us confirm that members are adults and that profiles represent genuine people. It is an important part of reducing fake accounts and creating a safer, more trustworthy community.

The verification process is shown during onboarding and may require identity details, identification and a live image or selfie check. The exact steps depend on the type of profile being verified.

A couple profile represents two people, so both partners must complete the required verification checks. This helps confirm that both people know about and consent to the shared profile.

Yes. Both partners on a couple profile must provide the information and identification required to complete verification.

You will not receive full access to the member community until verification is complete. Contact SwingDesire Support if you experience a genuine problem with the process.

Member profiles are kept within the private member platform and are not intended to appear in public search results. Public pages such as the homepage, blog and event information may be indexed by search engines.

Your profile is intended for eligible members of the SwingDesire community. Available privacy controls allow you to manage access to certain profile information and content.

SwingDesire provides privacy options for member media. The controls available for each photo are shown when you upload or manage your content.

No. SwingDesire uses general location information to help members make relevant connections. You should never add your home address or another precise private location to your public profile.

Use the block or report options provided on the member profile or relevant content. Reports are reviewed by the SwingDesire team and action may be taken where our rules have been broken.

Uploaded media may be checked using automated systems and manual review. Content that appears to break our rules can be restricted, rejected or removed.

We limit the collection and use of personal information to what is needed to operate, secure and improve the platform. Full details are provided in the SwingDesire Privacy Policy.

Yes. You can create a profile without paying an initial registration fee. Some features and areas of the community may require an active membership.

The features included with each membership option are shown clearly on the membership page before you subscribe. Access may include additional ways to connect and interact within the community.

Your billing frequency and renewal date are shown during checkout and within your membership account. Recurring payments continue until the membership is cancelled.

Yes. You can cancel a recurring membership from your account. Your access will normally continue until the end of the period you have already paid for.

No, unless a particular event or membership offer specifically says otherwise. Event tickets, venue entry and other event costs are normally purchased separately.

Profile type changes may affect verification and account details. Contact SwingDesire Support if your circumstances change and you need your profile reviewed.

Messages allow members to have private conversations, while winks provide a simple way to show interest. Access to these features can depend on your membership and account status.

Location features are designed around general areas rather than exact addresses. You should only share more precise location information privately when you feel safe and comfortable doing so.

Use genuine, current information and explain what you are looking for clearly and respectfully. Do not publish private contact details, home addresses or information belonging to another person without their consent.

Yes. Account deletion options are available through your account settings or by contacting SwingDesire Support. Some information may need to be retained where required for legal, security or fraud-prevention purposes.

SwingDesire can feature lifestyle events, socials, club nights and other relevant community gatherings. Each listing should explain the organiser, location, entry requirements and ticket arrangements.

Eligible members may be able to submit community events. Event submissions must follow SwingDesire rules and may require approval before they appear to other members.

Use the interest or attendance option shown on the event page. This helps you keep track of events and lets the organiser understand likely interest.

No. Some club pages may initially be created and maintained by SwingDesire as community listings. A page will clearly show when it has not yet been claimed by the venue.

An authorised venue representative can use the claim option on the club page and provide evidence of their connection to the business. Claims are reviewed manually before management access is approved.

SwingDesire may organise or promote selected events. The organiser and any important conditions will be stated clearly on each event listing.