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Terms of Service

The rules and conditions that apply when you create an account or use SwingDesire.

Last updated: 4th August 2026

Who we are

These Terms are between you and SwingDesire Ltd, a company registered in England and Wales under company number 17345958.

SwingDesire Ltd operates the SwingDesire website, member community, club directory, event listings and related features.

You can contact us through our Contact page or by emailing hello@swingdesire.com.

Agreement to these Terms

By creating an account, purchasing a membership or otherwise using SwingDesire, you agree to these Terms.

You must also follow our Community Guidelines, Privacy Policy, Photo and Content Policy, Age and Verification Policy and any additional rules clearly shown for a particular feature, membership, club or event listing.

If you do not agree to these Terms, you must not create an account or use the service.

Adults only

SwingDesire is strictly for adults aged 18 and over.

  • You must be at least 18 years old to create or use an account.
  • Every person represented by an account must be at least 18 years old.
  • Every identifiable person appearing in uploaded content must be an adult and must have agreed to that content being shared.
  • You must complete all required age, identity and profile verification checks before accessing the member platform.

We may restrict an account immediately where we reasonably suspect that it belongs to, represents or contains content involving someone under 18.

Eligibility

To use SwingDesire, you must:

  • have legal capacity to enter into a binding agreement;
  • provide accurate and current information;
  • use the service only for lawful personal purposes;
  • not be prohibited from using the service under applicable law;
  • not be subject to a permanent SwingDesire ban unless we have given written permission for a new account.

We may refuse registration where this is reasonably necessary to protect members, prevent fraud, enforce a previous restriction or comply with law.

Your account

You are responsible for keeping your account information accurate and your login credentials secure.

You must not:

  • share your login details with an unauthorised person;
  • allow another person to operate your account without our permission;
  • create deceptive, duplicate or impersonation accounts;
  • misrepresent your age, identity, gender, relationship type or verification status;
  • attempt to obtain access to another member’s account.

Tell us promptly if you believe your account has been compromised. You remain responsible for activity carried out through your account until you notify us, except where the activity resulted from something for which we are legally responsible.

Couple accounts

A couple account may only represent adults who know about and agree to the creation and use of the account.

Each partner must provide accurate information and must complete the required separate verification checks before the couple account is approved. One partner must not upload private information or intimate content concerning the other without their permission.

If consent to the couple account is withdrawn, the account may be restricted while ownership, content and privacy issues are reviewed.

Mandatory age and profile verification

Age and profile verification are mandatory for access to the SwingDesire member platform.

You cannot access member profiles, photographs, messages, groups, events or any other community feature until all required verification checks have been completed and approved.

Verification may include age, identity, face and profile-authenticity checks. For couple accounts, both partners must complete the required checks before the account is approved.

You must not submit false documents, use another person’s identity, manipulate verification material or attempt to bypass any verification requirement.

If a check cannot be approved automatically, the account will remain restricted while we conduct a manual review or request further information.

Completing verification confirms that the required checks were successfully completed. It does not guarantee another member’s character, intentions, relationship status, conduct or future behaviour.

Nature of the service

SwingDesire is not an escort agency and does not arrange, advertise or sell sexual services. We do not facilitate member-to-member payments, paid introductions or transactions between members. The membership fee is paid directly to SwingDesire Ltd for access to the online social networking platform and its features.

Messaging and in-app purchases

At launch, SwingDesire charges only for membership access. We do not sell coins, credits, profile boosts, virtual gifts, paid messages, tips or other in-app purchases.

Private messaging is included for members with active access and is not charged per message. There is no fixed numerical cap on ordinary private messages, although anti-spam, safety, privacy and account-access restrictions may apply.

Members must not charge other members through SwingDesire for messages, content, introductions or services, and SwingDesire does not facilitate member-to-member payments.

Member profiles and interactions

SwingDesire provides tools that allow adults to create profiles, communicate and discover people, groups, events and communities.

We do not introduce members as professional advisers, agents, escorts, employees or representatives of SwingDesire. You are responsible for deciding whether, when and how to interact with another member.

Profiles, messages, photographs, verification and moderation can reduce certain risks but cannot eliminate them. You should follow the guidance in our Safety Centre and use appropriate care before sharing information or meeting someone in person.

Acceptable use

You must use SwingDesire in accordance with these Terms and our Community Guidelines.

You must not:

  • use the service for prostitution, escorting, trafficking, exploitation or the sale of sexual services;
  • sell or solicit explicit content, private performances or pay-per-view adult material;
  • harass, threaten, stalk, intimidate or repeatedly contact someone who has asked you to stop;
  • share another person’s identity, location, messages, photographs or private information without permission;
  • upload, publish, request or distribute any material that breaches applicable UK law, any other law that applies to the service or user, or the standards and rules of our payment providers and card networks.
  • upload intimate content without the informed consent of every adult shown;
  • publish content involving or appearing to involve a person under 18;
  • impersonate another person or use stolen, misleading or manipulated photographs deceptively;
  • commit fraud, operate a scam, request money deceptively or promote unlawful activity;
  • send spam, malware, malicious links or unauthorised commercial advertising;
  • scrape, harvest, copy or systematically collect member information;
  • circumvent privacy controls, blocks, suspensions, payment controls or security measures;
  • interfere with the operation, integrity or availability of the service;
  • use automated systems, bots or scripts without our written permission.

Member content

You retain ownership of photographs, videos, text and other content that you upload.

By uploading content, you grant SwingDesire Ltd a worldwide, non-exclusive, royalty-free licence to host, store, reproduce, format, display and transmit that content only as reasonably necessary to:

  • provide the service according to your chosen visibility settings;
  • create technical copies, thumbnails and compatible file formats;
  • operate backups and content-delivery systems;
  • moderate content, investigate reports and enforce these Terms;
  • comply with legal obligations.

This licence does not give us permission to use private member content in public advertising without separate permission.

The licence ends when the content is deleted from our active systems, except where temporary copies remain in backups or retention is reasonably necessary for reports, safety, legal compliance or legal claims.

Your responsibility for content

You must have all rights, permissions and consents needed for anything you upload or share.

You must not upload content that:

  • infringes copyright, privacy, data-protection or other legal rights;
  • contains personal information belonging to someone who has not agreed to its disclosure;
  • is unlawful, fraudulent, defamatory, threatening or malicious;
  • contains viruses, harmful code or deceptive links;
  • breaches our Photo and Content Policy.

You are responsible for claims resulting from content you unlawfully upload. Nothing in this section requires a consumer to compensate us for losses caused by our own breach, negligence or unlawful conduct.

Privacy controls

Visibility controls help you choose who can view certain profile information or content. You are responsible for selecting settings that are suitable for you.

No technical control can prevent an authorised viewer from taking a screenshot, making a recording or otherwise copying information. Such copying may breach these Terms, but we cannot guarantee that it will never occur.

Only upload information and content that you are comfortable sharing with the audience selected.

Profile photographs and member media

SwingDesire is an adults-only platform. Member profiles and photographs are not available to logged-out visitors or the general public.

Main profile photographs, avatars and images displayed in member searches or directories must not contain nudity. This includes exposed breasts, visible genitalia, sexual activity or explicitly sexual imagery.

Within the private, logged-in member news feed, limited non-explicit adult toplessness may be permitted. Exposed adult breasts may be shown, but visible genitalia or explicitly sexual activity is not permitted within the general news feed.

Within Friends-only media areas, verified adult members may share full adult nudity. Friends-only content is visible only to members who have been accepted as friends by the uploader and is not displayed as a main profile photograph or within the general news feed.

Intimate content may only depict the verified adult or verified couple represented by the account. Every identifiable adult shown must be aged 18 or over and must have agreed to the image being uploaded.

Content involving minors, non-consensual intimate imagery, secretly recorded material, stolen photographs, exploitation, coercion, bestiality or unlawful content is strictly prohibited.

Image moderation and automated checks

Every profile photograph and member-media image submitted for publication is screened using Amazon Rekognition and Amazon Bedrock before it is made available to other members.

Images that are flagged, uncertain or unable to be processed are withheld from publication and referred for manual review by the SwingDesire moderation team.

Automated moderation supports our moderators but does not replace human judgement. An automated flag does not necessarily mean that an image has breached our rules.

We may approve, reject, restrict or remove an image depending on its content, selected visibility, the people depicted, available verification information and our Photo and Content Policy.

Previously approved images may be reviewed again following a member report, safety concern or change in available information.

Where appropriate, members may challenge a moderation decision through our Complaints, Reports and Appeals process.

Reports and investigations

You may report members, messages, content or activity through the available reporting tools or our Contact page.

Where multiple reports or a serious safety concern is received, we may temporarily restrict an account while the matter is reviewed. The reports, relevant content and account history are then assessed by an authorised moderator.

When investigating a report, we may review relevant profiles, content, messages, login information, reports and account activity where reasonably necessary and permitted by law.

We do not normally disclose confidential details about another member or every step taken during an investigation. We may confirm that a report has been reviewed and provide appropriate information about the outcome.

Knowingly submitting false, malicious or abusive reports may itself breach these Terms.

Warnings, restrictions and account removal

Where we reasonably believe that these Terms, our policies or the law have been breached, we may:

  • remove or limit content;
  • request verification or additional information;
  • issue guidance or a warning;
  • limit messaging, posting, discovery or other features;
  • temporarily suspend an account;
  • cancel membership access;
  • permanently close an account;
  • preserve or disclose information where legally permitted or required.

The action taken will depend on factors including seriousness, evidence, risk, previous conduct and legal obligations.

We may act without advance notice where reasonably necessary to prevent harm, secure the service, investigate suspected fraud, protect another person or comply with law.

Appeals

You may ask us to review certain warnings, content removals, suspensions or account closures by following our Complaints, Reports and Appeals process.

An appeal should explain why you believe the decision was incorrect and include any relevant evidence. Submitting an appeal does not automatically restore content, features or account access while the review takes place.

Free and paid membership

Some features may be available without charge and others may require a paid membership.

Paid Full Membership is purchased as a one-off payment for the membership period shown at checkout. It does not renew automatically.

When a paid membership period ends, paid access expires unless the member actively returns to the website and completes a new purchase.

The price, membership length, included features, trial terms and any minimum commitment will be clearly shown before purchase.

Free features, trial features and membership benefits may differ. We may introduce, remove or change features, but we will not remove a material paid benefit during a current paid period without an appropriate reason and, where required, notice or another suitable remedy.

Payments

Membership payments are processed as one-off payments by our payment provider. We do not normally receive or store your complete payment-card details.

Payments appear on your card or bank statement as PIX*SDOnline.

No future membership payment will be collected automatically. A member must actively complete a new purchase when their current paid period ends.

You must provide accurate billing information and have permission to use the selected payment method.

If a payment fails, is reversed or is disputed, we may suspend paid features while the issue is resolved. We will not restrict statutory rights or pursue charges that are not properly due.

Taxes and other mandatory charges will be included or clearly identified where applicable.

Trials and promotional offers

A trial or promotional offer may be subject to additional conditions shown when you register.

Unless stated otherwise:

  • an offer may be limited to one per person, household, account or payment method;
  • we may refuse or withdraw an offer where it is being abused or obtained deceptively;
  • a free trial will end on the date shown and will not convert into a paid membership automatically;
  • the member must actively complete a one-off payment to continue with paid access after a trial.

Cancelling or ending a membership

Paid memberships do not renew automatically. No cancellation is required to stop a future payment.

Paid access ends automatically at the end of the membership period shown at checkout unless the member actively completes a new purchase.

You may stop using the service or request account closure at any time. Ending use or closing an account does not automatically create a right to a refund for a paid period that has already started, except where a statutory right or our Refund and Cancellation Policy applies.

Nothing in these Terms limits any cancellation or cooling-off right provided by applicable consumer law.

Cooling-off rights and early access

Consumers may have a legal right to cancel certain online purchases during a statutory cooling-off period.

Where you ask for a paid service to begin during a cooling-off period, you may be required to make an express request. If you then cancel, the law may allow us to charge a proportionate amount for services supplied before cancellation.

Where digital content is supplied immediately, you may be asked to expressly consent to immediate supply and acknowledge any effect this has on a cancellation right.

Details applying to a particular purchase will be shown during checkout or in the confirmation information provided to you.

Refunds

Refunds are provided where required by law and in accordance with our Refund and Cancellation Policy and any terms clearly shown before purchase.

Except where the law provides otherwise, payments are not automatically refundable merely because:

  • you did not use the service during the paid period;
  • you changed your mind after paid access had begun;
  • another member did not respond or an interaction did not meet your expectations;
  • you were restricted for breaching these Terms.

We will consider the circumstances fairly, including service failures, duplicate charges, legal cancellation rights and any error for which we are responsible.

Price changes

We may change membership prices from time to time.

A price change will not affect a membership period that has already been paid for. Any new price will be shown before the member actively completes a future purchase.

Clubs, venues and event listings

SwingDesire provides directory and discovery features for clubs, venues and events. Listings may be created by SwingDesire administrators, verified clubs, venues or approved event organisers.

Unless we expressly state otherwise, SwingDesire does not own, organise, supervise or operate an event merely because it appears on the platform.

SwingDesire does not currently process payments for third-party event tickets. Where a paid ticket is required, members purchase directly from the relevant club, venue or event organiser through its own website, booking system or contact details.

The relevant organiser or venue is responsible for its event, ticket sales, admission decisions, refunds, cancellations, accessibility information, safety arrangements and its own booking terms.

A SwingDesire profile, verification status, membership or event indication does not guarantee admission. Admission may remain subject to identification, venue rules, capacity, conduct, profile type and safety requirements.

Further information is set out in our Events and Venue Listings Terms.

Intellectual property

The SwingDesire name, logo, website design, software, graphics and original materials are owned by or licensed to SwingDesire Ltd.

We grant you a personal, limited, revocable, non-exclusive and non-transferable right to use the service in accordance with these Terms.

You must not copy, reproduce, sell, reverse engineer, distribute or commercially exploit our software, branding or original materials except where permitted by law or with our written permission.

Service availability

We aim to provide a reliable service but cannot guarantee uninterrupted or error-free availability.

Access may occasionally be limited because of maintenance, security incidents, updates, provider failures, legal requirements or circumstances outside our reasonable control.

We will take reasonable steps to restore material service interruptions and communicate significant planned changes where appropriate.

Changes to the service

We may update, improve, replace or discontinue features where reasonably necessary for security, legal compliance, technical development, member safety or operation of the service.

Where a change materially disadvantages an active paid membership, we will provide reasonable notice where practicable and any remedy required by consumer law.

Your statutory rights

Nothing in these Terms removes or limits rights that consumers have under applicable law.

Services and digital content must meet applicable legal standards. Remedies may be available where paid services are not provided with reasonable care and skill, or digital content is faulty or does not match its description.

Our responsibility

Nothing in these Terms excludes or limits liability where it would be unlawful to do so, including liability for:

  • death or personal injury caused by negligence;
  • fraud or fraudulent misrepresentation;
  • breach of mandatory consumer rights;
  • any other liability that cannot legally be excluded.

We are responsible for foreseeable loss or damage caused by our breach of these Terms or failure to use reasonable care and skill.

We are not responsible for loss or damage that:

  • was not reasonably foreseeable when the contract was made;
  • was caused by inaccurate information, unlawful content or misconduct supplied by a member;
  • resulted from an independent venue, organiser or third-party provider outside our reasonable control;
  • was caused by your failure to follow reasonable safety or security instructions;
  • relates to business use, loss of profit or commercial activity where you use the consumer service for an unauthorised business purpose.

We do not guarantee that another member is suitable, compatible, trustworthy or safe, or that any meeting, relationship or event will meet your expectations.

Events, meetings and member conduct

Unless we expressly state otherwise, an interaction or meeting arranged between members is private and is not organised, supervised or controlled by SwingDesire Ltd.

Members are responsible for their own decisions, transport, accommodation, alcohol consumption, sexual-health precautions, personal boundaries and compliance with law.

This does not affect any responsibility we may have for an event that we directly organise or for a failure by us to comply with a legal duty.

Closing your account

You may stop using the service and request account closure at any time.

Closing an account does not automatically reverse completed membership payments or remove information that we must retain for legal, accounting, safety, fraud-prevention or dispute purposes.

Before closing a couple account, we may need to consider requests from each represented partner concerning their personal information and content.

What happens when access ends

When your account ends, your right to use member-only features stops.

Terms concerning member content, intellectual property, payments already due, investigations, legal claims, liability and governing law may continue where reasonably necessary.

Changes to these Terms

We may update these Terms to reflect changes to the service, law, safety requirements, providers or business operations.

The latest version and updated date will be published on this page. Where a change materially affects existing members, we will provide reasonable additional notice through the website, account area or email.

If you do not agree to a material change, you may stop using the service. Any future paid membership would require a new active purchase by you.

Transfer of these Terms

We may transfer our rights and obligations under these Terms to another organisation as part of a restructuring, sale or transfer of the service, provided this does not reduce your legal rights.

You may not transfer your account or rights under these Terms to another person without our written permission.

If part of these Terms is invalid

If a court or relevant authority finds that part of these Terms is unlawful or unenforceable, the remaining provisions will continue to apply.

No waiver

If we do not immediately enforce a provision of these Terms, that does not prevent us from enforcing it later. Any action we take must remain consistent with applicable law and consumer rights.

Complaints and contact

Questions, complaints and support requests can be submitted through our Contact page or by emailing hello@swingdesire.com.

Reports and moderation appeals should follow our Complaints, Reports and Appeals process.

Nothing in these Terms prevents you from seeking advice from Citizens Advice, Trading Standards or another appropriate consumer-protection body.

Governing law and courts

These Terms are governed by the laws of England and Wales.

If you are a consumer living in another part of the United Kingdom, you retain any mandatory rights that apply where you live and may be entitled to bring proceedings in your local courts.

We encourage members to contact us first so that we have an opportunity to resolve a concern, but this does not limit the right to use the courts or another remedy available under law.

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